Hi !

mailyoulike is built on template technology
header and fotter files will only change the  top and bottom of ever page but do not alter the middle section of page ( like colors , font  etc )

There is template file  in template folder . you need to edit that  it is simple html  file , with custom tags in it   you can design any page  and put it in that folder name it any thing but just include  thoose tags in the hml file you make , after you are done with that

login with admin access and go to admin option

 from there you can select  your newly created template file and whole application  will change it self accroding to the template file you made

for explaination  of custom tages please read the link in your admin option   make your own skin 

if you found that diffcult let  me know i will do a  template for you  also completly intragate the application into your exsisitng site for a small fee

also in few makes   a website  http://mailyoulikeskins.com  will be   lunched and you could buy skins from there

Thanks
Suhail kaleem
Mailyoulike.com